Envy and Pride
When I was younger, I found that I often envied other people for their talents, or their parents, or their looks, or their abilities, or whatever. I wanted what they have.
One day that switched for me; I decided to do the opposite. I found that instead, if I was proud of their abilities, or their talents, or looks, or whatever, then I could live much happier, think better thoughts, and be more abundant. I found I can turn feelings of envy into feelings of pride, just by flipping my perspective.